In His Own Words
About Him
In case you wondering my hair is not dyed!
My Family genes are just anti grey! If You feel it would be good for us to meet, write and tell me more about yourself. And please have good thoughts about our further relationship, for thoughts are like seeds. All the flowers of all the tomorrows are in the seed of today.
Let me tell you about myself. I am divorced (15 years ago), I am self-sufficient, self-employed , happy, secure, self-confident, psychologically aware, emotionally and financially secure.
I believe in enjoying the good life and am high on it. I have a healthy attitude about Religion.
I am not a game player. I never want personal happiness at the expense of someone else. If we have a single date or a lifetime together, I will never lie to you, try to manipulate you or use you in any way. I am an incurable romantic who treasures, cherishes and appreciates sincerity, integrity, honesty and warmth. I enjoy picnics, laughing, talking, touching, affection and physical closeness. A good listener who enjoys mutual spoiling and also I am a one-woman man.
I am looking for a special, loving relationship with a unique lady who is affectionate, beautiful, slender, with a shapely figure, sincere, easygoing, with interests and characteristics similar to mine...someone who wants a meaningful, serious, long-term relationship...not just a few dates. Are you that special lady?
About His Ideal Match
My pics are mostly
*** Sunglasses are cool but not on your only profile pic please!
Eyes are the window to your Soul..if you are hiding something go somewhere else.
If you say "Ask me later' too often ..why should I trust you?
A Profile pic should be an honest representation of who you are right ?
Honesty is everything !
Just be yourself have your own opinion.
You take care of yourself physically and became wise from the school of life.
You are comfortable in your own space have nothing to prove..
Baggage will be what it is how we deal with it is the question.
Be financially independent ,comfortable in your own skin,complicated should be a strange word.
Your smile is genuine honest and a window to your soul..
Wow am I setting my standards too high..?.Find out when you get to know me ...just a simple Guy that know's what he wants.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Durban (Bluff), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
64 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
188cm (6' 2.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; Dutch; Portuguese; Zulu | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 60 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
153cm (5' 0.2") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I have a full beard |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Folk; Instrumental; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Fiction; History; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Independent; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Painting; Photography; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
A regular competitor |
Sports: |
Chess; Cricket; Fishing; Shooting; Soccer; Swimming |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Greek; Indian; Italian; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Conservative |
Retirement Plans: |
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World |
Feelings about using 12meet: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
