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CottonMerchant

64 – Durban (Bluff), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa

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Modified: 23 February 2024

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In His Own Words

About Him

In case you wondering my hair is not dyed!
My Family genes are just anti grey! If You feel it would be good for us to meet, write and tell me more about yourself. And please have good thoughts about our further relationship, for thoughts are like seeds. All the flowers of all the tomorrows are in the seed of today.
Let me tell you about myself. I am divorced (15 years ago), I am self-sufficient, self-employed , happy, secure, self-confident, psychologically aware, emotionally and financially secure.
I believe in enjoying the good life and am high on it. I have a healthy attitude about Religion.
I am not a game player. I never want personal happiness at the expense of someone else. If we have a single date or a lifetime together, I will never lie to you, try to manipulate you or use you in any way. I am an incurable romantic who treasures, cherishes and appreciates sincerity, integrity, honesty and warmth. I enjoy picnics, laughing, talking, touching, affection and physical closeness. A good listener who enjoys mutual spoiling and also I am a one-woman man.
I am looking for a special, loving relationship with a unique lady who is affectionate, beautiful, slender, with a shapely figure, sincere, easygoing, with interests and characteristics similar to mine...someone who wants a meaningful, serious, long-term relationship...not just a few dates. Are you that special lady?

About His Ideal Match

My pics are mostly
*** Sunglasses are cool but not on your only profile pic please!
Eyes are the window to your Soul..if you are hiding something go somewhere else.
If you say "Ask me later' too often ..why should I trust you?
A Profile pic should be an honest representation of who you are right ?
Honesty is everything !

Just be yourself have your own opinion.
You take care of yourself physically and became wise from the school of life.
You are comfortable in your own space have nothing to prove..
Baggage will be what it is how we deal with it is the question.
Be financially independent ,comfortable in your own skin,complicated should be a strange word.
Your smile is genuine honest and a window to your soul..
Wow am I setting my standards too high..?.Find out when you get to know me ...just a simple Guy that know's what he wants.

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Durban (Bluff), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
64
Star Sign:
Capricorn
Height:
188cm (6' 2.0")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Ask me later
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans; Dutch; Portuguese; Zulu
Religion:
Christian / Other
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
40 - 60
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
153cm (5' 0.2") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Decidedly important
Ethnicity:
Asian; Coloured; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Occasional; E-cigarette User
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
It has its moods
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Facial Hair:
I have a full beard
Body Hair:
Average
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Sophisticated
Intelligence:
Rocket Scientist
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite Clothing:
I'm most comfortable naked
Favourite Colour:
Black
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Classical; Folk; Instrumental; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Rock
Reading:
I love it
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Business; Fiction; History; Science / Technology
TV Habits:
There're several shows I watch regularly
TV Shows:
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie Preferences:
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Independent; War; Westerns
Interests:
Business news; Cooking; Healthy living; Painting; Photography; Reading
Sport Involvement:
A regular competitor
Sports:
Chess; Cricket; Fishing; Shooting; Soccer; Swimming
Food
Cooking:
I cook rather than starve
Food:
Greek; Indian; Italian; South African
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at Work:
I work at home
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time Online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family Closeness:
We're average
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Pets (Have):
Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Sarcasm
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious Attendance:
Rarely
Dream Home:
Beach house
Politics:
Conservative
Retirement Plans:
Exploring the 7 Wonders of the World
Feelings about using 12meet:
Optimistic
Honesty:
Extremely