In Her Own Words
About Her
I’ve had this notion for a couple of years now that romance is an illusion, but that said I do believe that relationships are there to teach us to grow and flourish, yet still be an individual. So, my ‘romantic’ idea of finding love is to meet a shy (but don’t fudge with him) guy, who is handy and practical, accepts himself, who wishes to get to know me as I want to get to know him. Friends first, no expectations. Then, building something together to leave a worthwhile legacy behind.
I don’t do handbags, plak-aan nails false eyelashes … Yet I love to dress up, wear make-up on occasions and enjoy girly things when I am not 'rabbedoe-ing'.
Although not practical (3 left thumbs), I have amazing ideas and problem solving is one of my ‘super powers’. I am good at planting seeds and see the people with expertise nourish and bring it to manifestation. I bake an amazing carrot cake!
Not comfortable in big crowds but excel when it comes to one-on-one connections.
Not into hook-ups.
Love being a hermit at times, yet an active member of sport and art associations.
I am devoted to a spiritual path that focuses on getting to know (and grow) the inner self for the better, with an interest in the esoteric and mystical.
Heart and soul into self-sustainability, being off grid, doing my best to be kind to mother earth and her inhabitants.
I think that: ‘You have your place and I have mine, and we visit often’ is a workable concept. Sensuality.
INFJ, I love learning new things. Loyal.
About Her Ideal Match
Shy yet self-assured, sigma male perhaps
Practical (can build, fix and make stuff),
Deep conversations,
Kind to Gaia, animals and people who are different.
Awake!
Integrity and wisdom.
Active and in good health.
( 'n Boerseun ja man ja!
As jy kos kan maak sal ek vir die nagereg sorg,)
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
Zambia | |
Location: |
George, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
49 - 69 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") - 199cm (6' 6.3") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Green; Grey | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Intelligent; Mild; Moody; Optimistic; Quiet |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Other |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Fantasy; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Healthy living; Painting; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Archery; Body building; Camping; Canoeing; Cycling; Fencing; Fishing; Mountain biking; Pool; Snorkeling; Squash; Swimming; Table Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; Water Polo; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Taking a class |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Long hair |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Stilt house in the jungle |
Politics: |
Very Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using 12meet: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
