In Her Own Words
About Her
I’ve had this notion for a couple of years now that romance is an illusion, but that said I do believe that relationships are there to teach us to grow and flourish, yet still be an individual. So, my ‘romantic’ idea of finding love is to meet a shy (but don’t fudge with him) guy, who is handy and practical, accepts himself, who wishes to get to know me as I want to get to know him. Friends first, no expectations. Then, building something together to leave a worthwhile legacy behind.
I don’t do handbags, plak-aan nails false eyelashes … Yet I love to dress up, wear make-up on occasions and enjoy girly things when I am not 'rabbedoe-ing'.
Although not practical (3 left thumbs), I have amazing ideas and problem solving is one of my ‘super powers’. I am good at planting seeds and see the people with expertise nourish and bring it to manifestation. I bake an amazing carrot cake!
Not comfortable in big crowds but excel when it comes to one-on-one connections.
Not into hook-ups.
Love being a hermit at times, yet an active member of sport and art associations.
I am devoted to a spiritual path that focuses on getting to know (and grow) the inner self for the better, with an interest in the esoteric and mystical.
Heart and soul into self-sustainability, being off grid, doing my best to be kind to mother earth and her inhabitants.
I think that: ‘You have your place and I have mine, and we visit often’ is a workable concept. Sensuality.
INFJ, I love learning new things. Loyal.
About Her Ideal Match
Shy yet self-assured, sigma male perhaps
Practical (can build, fix and make stuff),
Deep conversations, in control of your emotions.
Kind to Gaia, animals and people who are different.
Awake! (Deal breaker)
Integrity and wisdom.
Active and in good health.
( 'n Boerseun ja man ja!
As jy kos kan maak sal ek vir die nagereg sorg,)
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
Zambia | |
Location: |
George, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
175cm (5' 8.9") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Artistic / Musical / Writer | |
Income: |
Solvent |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
49 - 69 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
172cm (5' 7.7") - 199cm (6' 6.3") | ||
Body Type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Green; Grey | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Moody; Naive; Optimistic; Quiet |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Other |
Date Activities: |
Meeting for coffee |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Fantasy; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Computer programming; Gardening; Healthy living; Painting; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Archery; Body building; Camping; Canoeing; Cycling; Fencing; Fishing; Mountain biking; Pool; Snorkeling; Squash; Swimming; Table Tennis; Volleyball; Walking; Water Polo; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Taking a class |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Intelligence; Long hair |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Stilt house in the jungle |
Politics: |
Very Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using 12meet: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
