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Ruthven

67 – Johannesburg (Linden), Gauteng, South Africa

Above average guy looking for an above average girl

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Johannesburg (Linden), Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
67
Star Sign:
Pisces
Height:
175cm (5' 8.9")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Greying
Eye Colour:
Hazel
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Christian / Other
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Postgraduate degree
Occupation:
Finance
Income:
Solvent

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Randburg; Sandton; Johannesburg (Gauteng, South Africa)
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
55 - 63
Star Sign:
Taurus; Cancer; Libra; Scorpio; Capricorn; Pisces
Height:
165cm (5' 5.0") - 176cm (5' 9.3")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Non-negotiable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English; French; Gaelic / Irish
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

I am Quixotic in nature in that I am loyal, have great integrity and am honest. Insincerety, deceit and manipulation are an anathema to me. Yes, I do joust with the occasional windmills.
I am a child of the earth and am happiest doing things outdoors particularly when it is with or for someone special. I need no reward for doing for someone else but resent being taken for granted. I enjoy people with a wry or quirky sense of humour. I am not a big group person as it dilutes people. I enjoy discourse, the sharing of ideas and activities and being challenged. I believe I am aware of my shortcomings and am able to deal with most of them.

If you are looking for a big company executive, that is not me. I work best with individuals and people whom I feel I can form some form of bond. I am the person that you can turn to because I will always be there and you know that you won't be abandoned.

About His Ideal Match

Someone who loves life, appreciates being the special someone of someone else and expresses it in laughter, music and love.
I have a particular aversion to people who construe my willingness to give my all to them as a weakness or something to be taken advantage of. It is important that the ideal person be imbued with honesty and bravery; honesty to acknowledge what they feel and the bravery to say it even though it may hurt, because that is trust.

My ideal is someone who is willing to share our combined and individual ups and downs, someone who is comfortable expressing her thought and feelings and happy to receive mine. Someone who is sensitive, caring, loyal and wants to be cared for. Someone who loves the physicality and personal challenge of sport and yet also has those unique graces and skills that make a woman what she is in a home.
The greatest thing however, is to do and to love as you would have done done to you.

What His Friends Say

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More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Short
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic
Valued Qualities:
Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness
Fashion Sense:
Natural (I only wear natural fabrics)
Favourite Clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Classical; Folk; Pop / Top 40; Rock
Reading:
I love it
Books:
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Sci-Fi
TV Habits:
I don't have a TV
TV Shows:
Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Sport
Movie Frequency:
Once or twice a month
Movie Preferences:
Adult; Art Films; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Romance; Sci-Fi; Westerns
Interests:
Business news; Gardening; Reading; Woodworking
Sport Involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Canoeing; Cycling; Mountain biking; Rowing; Triathlon; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I cook rather than starve
Food:
Chinese; Indian; Italian; South African
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at Work:
I work at home
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time Online:
I check in once a day
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family Closeness:
We're average
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Cat(s)
Turn-ons:
Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Assertiveness; Power; Sarcasm
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious Attendance:
Rarely
Dream Home:
Cottage in the country
Politics:
Moderate
Retirement Plans:
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods
Feelings about using 12meet:
Hopeful
Honesty:
Extremely