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earthling_121

widowed and trying something new

About Him

Country of Origin:South Africa
Current Location:Amanzimtoti (durban), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa
Gender:Male
Age:55
Star Sign:Scorpio
Height:183cm (6' 0.0")
Body Type:Ask me later
Looks:Ask me later
Hair Colour:Other
Eye Colour:Blue
Ethnicity:White/Caucasian
Home Language:English
Other Languages:Afrikaans
Religion:Ask me later
Marital Status:Widowed
Relationship Types:Just penpals; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities
Have Children:Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:No
Smoking Habits:Non-Smoker
Drinking Habits:Occasional Drinker
Education:Ask me later
Occupation:Transportation
Income:Enough

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Why should you get to know earthling_121?

The loss of a partner tests our ability to submit our selves again to life in search for renewal through the affection and love of another person. In this sense it gives us the chance to grow eventually through someone else.
Its not that love hurts but from not having love that hurts.
So in cyberspace my expectations are to feel the passionate desire to love again. The higher we fly the harder we fall, but the euphoria and the thriil wiil make me feel alive.


Enjoy outdoor / Cycling / Jogging. Certain beaches / weekends away. relaxing /braaing / cooking. A good meal must be complimented with a glass of wine. Can be quiet and reserved but usualy be full of fun. Dry sense of humour. Friendships are lasting.

He describes his ideal match thus:

Appreciate and understand life.
Be able to communicate, and understand each other. There is no happy-ever-after by just riding off into the sunset.
To share places and moments of fun.

Continue to build each other's self esteem by appreciation, and showing affection.

Enjoy out door activities. Willing to show emotions be it anger or sorrow to enble a relation to grow.

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Membership History

Profile Modified: 17 May 2008
Last Login: Today

About His Ideal Match

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Country of Origin:Anywhere in the World
Current Location:Anywhere in the World
Gender:Female
Age Range: (Moderately important)40 - 52
Has Photo:Decidedly important
Star Sign:Any
Height: (Moderately important)152cm (4' 11.8") - 179cm (5' 10.5")
Body Type: (Moderately important)Slim; Average; Curvaceous
Looks: (Moderately important)Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:Any
Eye Colour:Any
Ethnicity: (Moderately important)White/Caucasian
Home Language:Any
Other Languages:Any
Religion:Any
Marital Status:Any
Have Children:Any
Want Children:Any
Smoking Habits:Any
Drinking Habits:Any
Education:Any
Occupation:Any
Income:Any

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More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:Disappearing
Facial Hair:I have a moustache
Eyesight:I wear contacts
Disabilities:I have none
Body Art:I don't have any
Fashion Sense:Minimal (Clothes are strictly optional)
Favourite Clothing:Shorts & a T-shirt
Personality Traits
Valued Qualities:Friendliness; Honesty; Kindness; Humour; Faithfulness; Sexiness
Leisure & Entertainment
Pastimes of choice:Spending time outdoors
Reading:It's just OK
TV Habits:I mostly use my TV for news or sport
Movie Frequency:Never
Dating & Relationships
Date Activities:A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Sports, Hobbies & Interests
Sports:Athletics; Camping; Chess; Cricket; Cycling; Fishing; Hiking; Mountain biking; Running; Rugby; Snorkeling; Snooker; Table Tennis; Rowing
Interests:Cooking; Gardening; Meditation; Photography; Woodworking
Work & Lifestyle
Pace of Life:Manageable
Time at Work:I work a standard 40 hour week
Family Size:I've got a brother and a sister
Family Closeness:We're average
Time Online:I check in once a day
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):Bird(s); Dog(s); Fish
Dreams, Aspirations & Goals
Dream Home:Cabin in the mountains
Retirement Plans:Travelling cross-country in a mobile home
Philosophical Stuff
Honesty:Extremely